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i said i've picked the school instead. stop replying geez.
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no. I would go to the university of my choice because most likely, I'll stop liking that person. Then what? I can't choose a crush over my future, ya know?
ooh. what school by the way? GOD IS GOING TO SCHOOL. HOW COOL. heyy. it rhymessss. :]
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If this girl is the girl I like now then yes I would
I'm OCD like that lol
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take her outta the picture, would you still consider going to that school?parents and friend factor still counts
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If she has a bf then it would be sorta stupid to go to the same school for her. Also even if she was your gf, for the most part just going to the same school for the other isn't really a smart choice. College changes people a lot. Although if it's a decent school and your parents want you to go there because it's close to home it may not be such a bad idea.
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no. I would go to the university of my choice because most likely, I'll stop liking that person. Then what? I can't choose a crush over my future, ya know?
ooh. what school by the way? GOD IS GOING TO SCHOOL. HOW COOL. heyy. it rhymessss. :]
Her=UCI
My Top Choice=UCLA/Cal
What I'm afraid of is the part where i'll stop liking that person wouldn't happen cause there was a time when I didn't talk to her for half a year and I still like her.
take her outta the picture, would you still consider going to that school?parents and friend factor still counts
No.
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she's taken . she's obligated to say go to my uni , because that's the nice thing to say . you don't even know if she likes you ! omg .
do NOT go to a uni for a girl . even if you're going out . it's stupid .
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she's taken . she's obligated to say go to my uni , because that's the nice thing to say . you don't even know if she likes you ! omg .
do NOT go to a uni for a girl . even if you're going out . it's stupid .
Why does she feel obligated? A friend would actually feel obligated to tell me to go to the better one...I know for a fact that she wants me to go to her school but tells me to go to the better ones cause she knows it would be the better choice academically.
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Go to the university that you'll have the most fun and best experience in, everyone knows that you go to college for the 85% experience and 15% education.
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Hellllllllllllllllllll no (IMG:style_emoticons/default/smile.gif)
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No.
Well, there you have it, then. Why do it for her instead of you when she has a boyfriend, you don't know if she likes you, and your choice of uni will probably have a more far-reaching impact on your life than she would? Easier to find a girl at least as good at UCLA than go to UCI when you wouldn't otherwise only to be left hanging by the person who lured you there.
Also, was she joking when she told you to go to her school? Or she might've just wanted to have someone she's friendly with at the same school.
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Her=UCI
My Top Choice=UCLA/Cal
What I'm afraid of is the part where i'll stop liking that person wouldn't happen cause there was a time when I didn't talk to her for half a year and I still like her.
No.
UCI. HECK NO. That's not a very good school.
UCLA is the second best public school nationwide, berkeley is #1. Just because you go to different schools doesn't mean that you're gonna stay in touch or out of touch. Heck, you can even be on the same campus and never see her. But with current technology, you can talk, send videos, and meet up once in a while. Take your future into consideration, and seriously think about what you want to do with it. Because no matter what, you can contact her again, see her again, but you can't relive your college life again.
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Go to the university that you'll have the most fun and best experience in, everyone knows that you go to college for the 85% experience and 15% education.
hahaha i have friends at every uni. i'm pretty sure i'll have a good experience at all. only factors i'm putting into where i choose to go is distance from home, school's prestige, poli sci dept, # of friends, and her.
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Her=UCI
My Top Choice=UCLA/Cal
What I'm afraid of is the part where i'll stop liking that person wouldn't happen cause there was a time when I didn't talk to her for half a year and I still like her.
No.
UCI and UCLA aint that far apart dude =.=
Cal? cal poly? cal state?
anyway man, if your major has nothing to do with uci, i dont suggest you go there at all. even if shes there. i never went to those school, but i been on the both of the campus. enviroment wise...ucla would be a better choice for me
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UCI and UCLA aint that far apart dude =.=
Cal? cal poly? cal state?
anyway man, if your major has nothing to do with uci, i dont suggest you go there at all. even if shes there. i never went to those school, but i been on the both of the campus. enviroment wise...ucla would be a better choice for me
Cal=Berkeley. It is far if neither of you will have a car. Well poli sci is at every school so yeah. Environment isn't a factor in where I go.
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Why does she feel obligated? A friend would actually feel obligated to tell me to go to the better one...I know for a fact that she wants me to go to her school but tells me to go to the better ones cause she knows it would be the better choice academically.
because it's nice . i say that to people all the time . oh it'd be so great if you could come to my school ! wow how fun . aw , but you'd probably be better off at the other school , huh .. hmm
i mean maybe she's one of those really honest people , but if it were me i'd be saying it to be nice .
meanwhile , in the big wide world of university , what are the odds she'll suddenly up and leave her bf and end up with you ? if you're that close that she wants you to go to her uni anyway , you'll keep in contact with her , won't you ? so you'll still be an option .
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^what. I don't get a reply? :[
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UCI. HECK NO. That's not a very good school.
UCLA is the second best public school nationwide, berkeley is #1. Just because you go to different schools doesn't mean that you're gonna stay in touch or out of touch. Heck, you can even be on the same campus and never see her. But with current technology, you can talk, send videos, and meet up once in a while. Take your future into consideration, and seriously think about what you want to do with it. Because no matter what, you can contact her again, see her again, but you can't relive your college life again.
If I go to her school we'll see each other A LOT. We don't webcam/post pics/post videos online. We just talk on AIM and sometimes we don't talk for awhile cause AIM gets boring.
because it's nice . i say that to people all the time . oh it'd be so great if you could come to my school ! wow how fun . aw , but you'd probably be better off at the other school , huh .. hmm
i mean maybe she's one of those really honest people , but if it were me i'd be saying it to be nice .
meanwhile , in the big wide world of university , what are the odds she'll suddenly up and leave her bf and end up with you ? if you're that close that she wants you to go to her uni anyway , you'll keep in contact with her , won't you ? so you'll still be an option .
Oh...the uni that I have most friends at is the one where she's at and a lot of them want me to go to UCI but tell me to go to UCLA. She wants me to go there to I'm pretty sure...I'm just not sure what the reason is she wants me there for...if she likes me or if she just considers me a really good friend. I know right after you read that sentence you'll tell me to go to the better school cause I could end up just being a friend to her.
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Cal=Berkeley. It is far if neither of you will have a car. Well poli sci is at every school so yeah. Environment isn't a factor in where I go.
i guess environment is a the wrong word, i meant atmosphere =.=
anyways, before you make your decision with UCI, confront her that you like her. if she still show no signs then well... no point going to UCI right?
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i guess environment is a the wrong word, i meant atmosphere =.=
anyways, before you make your decision with UCI, confront her that you like her. if she still show no signs then well... no point going to UCI right?
I'm not sure if I want to ask her. It's just more complicated than that cause I don't want to write up what happened the past 3 years. I know in the end it'll be my decision and you guys don't know the whole story but getting some opinions won't hurt. I might ask her though. The only thing stopping me is she already has a BF and it would be weird to ask her...
