Question:
Okay, here's the situation.
HELP ME.
There's this guy I like, and I'm pretty sure he's interested in me too. Whatever, I don't want to get into that. Just trust me when I say that this guy's definitely interested in me.
So whenever I see him, you know, I make sure I look professional. My hair's not sticking out, my clothes look presentable, my makeup looks natural yet sophisticated, and you know, the whole casual nine yards deal. (Yes, girls make sure they look good in front of the guys they like, even if it doesn't seem like they do)
However, today was just an exception.
A HORRIBLE EXCEPTION.
See, I was taking my GED today, and you know when you take tests, the last thing you want to do is apply makeup and pull on your skintight jeans. So what I did was, dress horribly casual. I pulled on the most hideous cerulean sweatshirt you could ever find (one from my school's organization nonetheless), the most baggiest and biggest jeans in my closet, run down PUMAS, and just put my hair up in this flat ponytail with absolutely no volume in it at all. I didn't even slip on my contacts, just put on my nerdy ass horned rimmed glasses.
I grabbed a muffin, got on the bus, and was listenin to my ipod when low and behold, HE comes on.
I wanted to melt into the floor of the bus.
I looked absolutely disgusting. He came by, said hi, and stood around me, but then told me that he was going to the back because it was way too crowded for him to stay.
AAAAAAAAARGH.
I'm not making a big deal or anything, I just felt really crappy knowing that I could've look a lot better and that he saw me at my worst, when I wasn't expecting to see him again.
Oy.
So guys, tell me what you would think. Honestly. And keep it clean. Don't want any sarcastic or constructive criticisms.
Answer:
guys don`t care.
don`t like grls with excessive makeup.
makes them seem too into their looks.
a little is ok but too mcuh is blahi wouldn`t date a girl so worried about impressing a guy
cuz the most important thing is still personality
and we want to see the girl in her best and her worst
no one is perfect.
and before you bite me and say i`m a girl my guy friend next to me said that. =)
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If I like a girl, I wouldn't care about trivial things like this. I don't expect girls to look pretty all the time and frankly speaking, it's a turn off for me that some girl would make a huge deal about their looks. Nobody's perfect, so it's ok to have flaws (and embrace it).
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Sometimes the bad impressions go a long way......horned rim glasses?......shudders*
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Sometimes the bad impressions go a long way......horned rim glasses?......shudders*
Haha, then I guess it's guys like you that girls need to weed out before they get to know someone.
Thanks to everyone else for reassuring me that everything's going to be alright. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/smile.gif)
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dude.
you're fine. he's probably still into you.
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I guess I dont have the right to say anything here, but I just have to say, if he didnt like you because of that, he's not worth it. I mean, you have to look pretty 24/7, that sounds depressing.
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i'm girl, so i could be off. but i hear guys tell me it's less intimidating if u don't look perfect all the time.
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guys don't expect girls to be perfect.
if they do their insane.
guys have their ugly days too,
if my bf didn't appreciate me for my good and bad days then i wouldn't be with him and i wouldn't respect him.
its about liking the person on the inside AND outside (IMG:style_emoticons/default/smile.gif)
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I would. I mean, I've seen a lot of bad days from her. And sometimes, I was the cause of the bad day (IMG:style_emoticons/default/laugh.gif)
At least she doesn't try to look pretty or hot, cause then that'd be too much effort to please people.
Her getting angry and then totally making an attempted...attempt to black-belt me with her black-belt skills was an interesting experience.
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If I like a girl, I wouldn't care about trivial things like this. I don't expect girls to look pretty all the time and frankly speaking, it's a turn off for me that some girl would make a huge deal about their looks. Nobody's perfect, so it's ok to have flaws (and embrace it).
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trying to look pretty and perfect is exhausting
Why can't guys and girls switch roles instead? lol
but then boys would be girly haha
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If was interested in a girl, her personal appearance wouldnt be making a huge role in me liking her anyways, so I would say no.
If we were going out to dinner or a show or something, Id expect them to dress up a bit though ;P
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trying to look pretty and perfect is exhausting
Why can't guys and girls switch roles instead? lol
but then boys would be girly haha
i wudnt mind, id like the increase attention from the opposite sex. I mean girls can walk into a room and everyone will go omg shes sooo prettttty, but for guys it just doesnt feel the same. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/sweatingbullets.gif) ooo yeah im not attention seeking but its good for alittle change loll
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guys don`t care.
don`t like grls with excessive makeup.
makes them seem too into their looks.
a little is ok but too mcuh is blahi wouldn`t date a girl so worried about impressing a guy
cuz the most important thing is still personality
and we want to see the girl in her best and her worst
no one is perfect.
and before you bite me and say i`m a girl my guy friend next to me said that. =)
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Funny, how you won't look that good when you become his girlfriend. You dont expect to look good all the time around him, do you?
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doesnt matter dun worry about it
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Haha, then I guess it's guys like you that girls need to weed out before they get to know someone.
Thanks to everyone else for reassuring me that everything's going to be alright. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/smile.gif)
lol weed me out...the question is... are you being weed out too? (IMG:style_emoticons/default/ohmy.gif) haha jk
I don't want girls to look /behave like ajummas atleast when they're dating...thats just depressing...
sorry if I wrote down things that doesn't make you feel reassuring...but the truth is sometimes much more stronger =)
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yes. unless they're whacked in the head or something, they should know better than expecting a girl to look their 100% all the time, especially on exam days (IMG:style_emoticons/default/ohmy.gif)
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doesn't matter, i don't like girls with make up
a girl to me doesn't always have to dress to impress cuz were all human
