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My best friend just called telling me her boyfriend of 2 years told her he just didn't love her anymore and decided it would be best if they were just friends, and I felt useless for not knowing what to exactly say. She was crying and really upset and I felt like a bad friend for not saying anything and just being quiet and only reciting the usual 'i know im so sorry' and 'theres nothing wrong with you'. I know theres no magical cure for her to automatically feel better but is there anything that I could do/say to let her know im sincerely sorry for her/ words of encouragement? Argh I hate knowing that this jackas* is making her feel like this.
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there isnt much that you can do except help her get over him..
and just comfort her and supply lots of love instead of him
just tell her that she can find someone better who will love her
okay, im bad at words of encouragement
well, shes going to be looking towards you for help and comfort..
so try and provide that for her
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Turn up at her house with a tub of ice cream and a movie like Rush Hour or something. Shows you really care =D
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itz nice to know u care about your friend
take her out for a big shopping spreeee...
watch movie and munch on chocolate icecream
those 2 alwayz helpz me A LIL when im down
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Yah....do something to get her to stop thinking about it. Or just listening to her is fine....let her vent for a bit
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Just be a good friend, and be there for her.
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^ and go spend some time with her, just the two of you. if she's at home, go to her house and talk with her and keep her mind going rather than let her sit around and think about it 24/7. you don't really say anything, just be around for her to keep her company. if i was in her position, i'd want you to just be there, you don't have to say much just be around to talk with me and hang out with me.
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Do whatever you can to make her feel better and see why the situation turned out the way it became.
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well just the fact that you want to make her feel better is great =)
why don't you suggest doing something she really enjoys? shopping? getting your nails done? watching her favorite movies? I think one of the best things to help a person get over a breakup is a good friend's company.
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A pint of Ben & Jerry's, a pedicure, and a comedy (not a romantic comedy!!!!) should help out. And just be there for her if she needs a shoulder to cry on.
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Listening to her problems and being there is definitely enough to show her that you do care. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/smile.gif)
and totally off topic, but uh i love your username. i love that food!
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Just be a good friend, and be there for her.
Listen to her. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/biggrin.gif)
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go to her house and listen to what she has to say and definitely bring some ice cream and a funny movie, it will make her feel much better (IMG:style_emoticons/default/smile.gif) . i hope that everything is okay with your friend.
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just listen to her, be there for here, and take her out a lot to try to get her mind off him. she'll get over him eventually, even if she doesn't think she will.
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well you cant really say nethng right?
i mean she'll just cry more, the only thing to do is go to her house, room
then confort her in ne way possible i mean lyk she cant cry all da tyme
she gotta get over him
talk her out
do sum fun things
dat will cheer her up.
such as.... park? games in alarge group, movies? ICE SKATING
always fun ^^ keke
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yeaa your not the onlyy 1 i suckk at cheering up pple i alwayz end up doin smoethinf chaotic :T
well just b there for her or do something like i dont know ice-cream eatin contest O__o
that would distract her from thinking about it
