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I'm a guy and so I know these two girls. Well one of them I sorta knew for like 3 or so years now. But her friend I recently just got to know.
Anyways she invited me to her B-day party and afterwards we all hung out in her basement talking and what not.
By the way she is the girl asking if I was a player from my other thread.
later on at night she and her friend that I just got to know, asked my friend (who attended the part too) and I Are we virgins or not; I had a feeling it was more towards me.
I was surprised to hear this because the previous winter a girl that liked me asked me same question too.
I'm here thinking that they probably like me and was wondering. They are pretty hot girls too. I didn't want to tell if I am or not, so I just said for me to know, for you to find out.
now I know this question wouldn't be asked if you are somewhat interested in the other person or maybe from friends. At least it never crosses my mind to ask.
Girls or guy would you ever ask something like this to the other person? knowing that you maybe hardly knew much about them?
and does it mean anything? I'm just thinking they must be desperate or something.
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i asked everyone around me one time if they were virgins when i was drunk...
HAHaha
and they were drunk so they told me all the rauchy details LMAO
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ive never asked someone, some ppl just told me.
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i never really ask somebody if they were a virgin or not until high school.. and it was to my real close girl friends... not boys.. i don't care about boys.. but then as i grew older, i don't have to ask them if my boy friends are virgins or not, they would tell us... the only guy i asked was my boyfriend.. my current one... and that was awkward.. but great to know.. ^^
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i'm a guy and i only ask girls that i'm interested in if they are virgins.
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i ask guys that left & right.
its just funny what they have to say.
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Now-a-days... Younger kids are going out and having sex. I personally am not a favor of any of that, but things happen. Some of my friends are not virgins. You just have to deal with it. But because it seems to be more common among teens these days, people will ask just to get the 411 about someone.
I do ask people, and it's not just guys that I'm interested in. I want to know just because I like to know.
If you don't want to tell someone your own business, that's ALL up to you. If someone pressures you to tell them the truth, you don't have to tell them. It's your choice and your life. If they want to be involved, let them be involved in a different way. It would just be more appropriate if you had said, That's my business.
That's what I do.
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i think i've only been asked that by girls. LOL.
so ummmm, it doesn't mean anything?
it's just a curious question and it's part of knowing your friends.
some people just ask because they're curious about how many people actually have sex these days.
and think about it, why would they ask you that if they were interested? what's so special about that question?
maybe it's just me but ARE YOU A VIRGIN? is the last thing i'd ask a guy i was interested in.
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i never ask ppl, they just tell me
i find it...like an invasion of my privacy to be asked? except by my really close friends..
cuz really, it's none of their business anyway. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/sleep.gif)
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Yeah, I asked this guy before. I only asked cus he was hella perverted and I was like danggg, you hella need some LOL. And I asked if he was or not. And he was like, naah. Haha. But yeah.
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i dont ask any one really...
but some guyz ask me.. when they are interested in me and stuff
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I hate it when people ask me that even jokingly unless I feel like telling them, so that's the answer to the question no I don't ask people that because I don't want to put them in that spot and it's not really any of my business.
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I usually beat around the bush when answering that question. My personal life I tend to keep to myself.
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nah.. they just wana know..
usually when i get comfortable with someone, be it a girl or guy.
i'll ask them face-to-face.
i just wana know how they are. thats all.. not bein desperate.
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I talk to my friends, and associates about it every now and then. What's weird is most female associates I have lie about it. I would expect guys to do that more than girls. Lmao. I'm a virgin, and I'm ok with it.
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it sounds skanky or tells you something about that person if they ask you about that when they don't know you that well...not everbody though! just depends on the situation
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hehe..when i'm bored and my friends are with me, i just come out asking them..it's funny to see their reaction since they think i'm a good girl..lol..but their answers are mostly..'what do you think?'..anyways..
no reason for asking that, just bored..
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it seems like a weird question to ask the person youre interested if you dont know them that well..
but soo many people lie when asked that.. i know some girl who told her bf she was a virgin, bc she knew he wants to wait until hes married, but later he found out she lied
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i guy friend asked me that out of the blue....it was so random.... @___@ ....i've never asked anyone tho....i find it to be a personal issue, and if the person wishes to divulge it, then they'll tell me, instead of me having to ask...
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They just wanted to know,
if you're a dirty bird or not.
