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ok, so i just think that this guy in my PE is HOT. but i dont know whats wrong with myself
my mind is telling me that i LIKE him? so im so nervous to act normal around him. i feel like whenever
i want to talk to him hes gunna find out i think hes hot or whatever. i dont have feelings for him but it feels
like my body WANTS me to have feelings. hormones? arrggg i dont understand it (IMG:style_emoticons/default/sleep.gif)
i need some help. i mean, i dont want to be MORE than friends but i cant even become just a FRIEND
any suggestions? please help =D
thanks ahead of times. this guy is like driving me crazy...
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LOL... I used to have a crush for a guy in my PE class too. I feel pretty stupid for having liked him though. He's a jerk.
You don't know the guy right? It's probably just physical attraction. Like you said, it's possibly just your hormones. In any case, don't make yourself like him until you meet him and get to know him and stuff. But you can still stare from afar. lol. It's always nice to have someone to look at..
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can you put him out your mind ?
Like don't think about him
Just try to think about other things and forget about him
Do you like him at all?
You should figure out your feeling for him
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Ahah, I was like that too, but the guy was in my math class. He was hot, but he's such a big jerk. Now everytime I see him, I get mad just looking at him because he tried to start some crap with my best friend. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/mad.gif) . But he's still hot. ;]
Anyways, it's probably just physical attraction. I mean come on, who wouldn't like a hot guy? xD Just try to put that liking feeling in the back of your mind. If it still keeps on popping up everytime you're around him, then maybe you do have a little liking towards him. If you don't want him to know, don't be too obivious about it. Just try to act cool, talk to him once in awhile. I don't know if that made sense but yea. xD
Sorry if I didn't help much.
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i think he'll be kind of flattered if he knows u think hes hot. just pretend hes a girlfriend of urs, or someone u find completely not attractive. then...SLOWLY...make ur way into his heart
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oh wow, i'm in the same situation as you! i'd have to say it's the hormones. lol i know the feeling it's just like how you would act aroud a crush.
i guess just keep trying to tell yourself that you don't KNOW him, you just know his face. maybe throughout hte course you'll get to know what he is like. Who knows he could turn out to be a really nice guy or a jerk.
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lol just keep it cool...at times..if u force things too much, it'll never come to u.instead it will disappoint u ...and it'll make u sad at the end.
you should just say hi to him..just as friendsu noe? dont be too serious..just be like hey wassup? ure liking this clasS/ likin our teacher? i think he/she's pretty okay..its PE u noe?
it takes time..to start friendship..but if u just keep it cool and low like that..things are prone to start more...if u make it too complicated.
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just pretend hes a girlfriend of urs, or someone u find completely not attractive. then...SLOWLY...make ur way into his heart
I agree...
Though I'm not saying you should put on the first move to make him your friend, just talk to him when talking to you and be yourself (Am i being too conservative (IMG:style_emoticons/default/laugh.gif) (IMG:style_emoticons/default/sweatingbullets.gif) )
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thanks everyone! i found your advice to be really helpful. i did notice that he tried talking to me once.
im supposed to be his dance partner but i honestly think that he SUCKS at dancing =P
i guess ill just start saying HI to him =) my friends say that he's pretty nice. i just wanna be friends
and not just go for him because hes hot (IMG:style_emoticons/default/crazy.gif) well, im going to school now =) WISH ME LUCK!
thanks for all your help guys! ♥
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er...start a conversation (IMG:style_emoticons/default/happy.gif) start off by 'helloz! ive been noticing you these days...[or wutever] and.... i was wondering... wanna be my friend?!' (IMG:style_emoticons/default/biggrin.gif) he might think you're weird, but..hey! it works!
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OH GOSH I HATE THAT FEELING...
it happens to me alot.. haha i don't choose to like her, it just happens.. it's so horrible =/
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he makes you horny o.o ? ....
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Lol, he must be FAH-INEEEE for you to feel that way.
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I say, just start talking to him and get to know him, you might feel better.
You could always accidentally-purposely hit him with a ball, or something to that effect, and then everything can start from there. (:
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hahaaa this happened to meeee. i was a customer and he was the salesperson XDDD;;;; total strangers =0=; but he striked up a convo w/ me & we became friends afterwards. ergh, too bad nothing more u_u;
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haha im just like you. theres this cute guy that i always see in the halls, but its just attraction i don't think i like him or anything.
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okee soo im back from school and i got to know him a little more =D
his best friend is a *bleep* yahh but hes the exact opposite of her. i joined his club =P
tomorrow we are swimming for PE and . arrgg!!
YES Mrs.Lucifer he totally makes me horny.
ritzy! hes not really FINEE- hes past normal but hasnt quite reached OH MY GOSH!
my friend says that he has a girls figure- i mean he has a small WAIST... he asked me to draw a clown for
him today. and soo..... thats how we kinda started talking =) but i know that he likes my friend.
i feel like i want to LIKE him- but hes known my friend longer so its just on use .
ahah! imahobox3 i think its too late for that but i agree that it would have been a good thing to do.
but i guess i was just nervous? thanks for your advice guys! if anyone else has any more advice i would
LOVE to hear them (IMG:style_emoticons/default/blush.gif)
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I know how you feel. I am crushing on one the supervisors, from a different department, at my place of employment. It feels slightly refreshing. I have not had a school girl crush in such a long time.
I plan to just go up to him one of these days and say, I think you're very handsome. Would you like to have dinner some time?
You know... when I grow some guts.
Just try to converse with PE boy casually. It won't hurt. Trust me you'll kick yourself in the future if you miss your opportunity. I never get the chance to talk to my guy, unless I decide to go on full stalking mode.
