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So I'm wanna ask this girl out but it hit me we're always in a group setting with our friends...and her b-day is tomorrow...so why not ask her out. I've been talking to her here and there since July. Flirted a few times and talked to her.
EDIT: Well its after her bday. What happen at the end of her bday.Well it was weird at the end of the night she talked about the peace corp and how she has to do it. She was slowing breaking down saying she had to do this. The only thing i could do was hold her and told she had to do what she had to do. It didn't hit me how i honestly felt about her til she said you will see me off at the airport. At that moment i finally found my honest feelings for this dorky girl. I held her most of the night telling it will be okay. I told her everyone has certain things they need to do in life. And that i support her. I think i even told her i wait for her....21-bday do some weird stuff. I didn't want her to be sad so i kept talking to her while wiping tears. We kept talking til she fell asleep. I took my sweater and gave it to her as a blanket. It was weird but as i slept on the floor next to her i couldn't let go of her hand.
Oh asking her out - i meant asking to go out on a date to get to know her more
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In person. If you don't see her enough to ask her in person then you don't know her well enough to ask her out.
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dont ask her out on her bday. trust me... if u guys ever break up.. she will feel freakin alskdfjakjfa ( just from experience)!
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Yeah, what if she feels bad about it?
You'll ruin her birthday! (IMG:style_emoticons/default/ph34r.gif)
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Ask her the day after but you have to ask her in person. Make time to see her.
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wait at leasta days after...just in case
and PLEASE
do not ask her out over the phone/internet/text message/you get the point
I will personally e-slap you if you do
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and PLEASE
do not ask her out over the phone/internet/text message/you get the point
I will personally e-slap you if you do
LOL (IMG:style_emoticons/default/laugh.gif) (IMG:style_emoticons/default/tongue.gif)
you should ask in person rather than over the phone/on msn etc because over the phone, on msn etc. just proves you're a wimp, and that you don't have the confidence to tell her in person.
lot of my friends won't go out with a guy asked her over the phone or on msn.
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ask her out in person but... uh... not on her birthday. it'll be more meaningful if you set out a day to ask her :] like plan something together or whatever~
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IN person!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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ask her out in person! it's so much better. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/smile.gif) and if you do it on the phone or online...you're a chicken! _
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In person. If you don't see her enough to ask her in person then you don't know her well enough to ask her out.
so true...
btw when you say 'ask out'...do you mean ask out on a date or something or ask her to be your gf? it'd be ok if you were to ask her on a date or just hang out...but it wouldn't be until after you see her more often and get close to her for you to ask her to be your girl...
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the fact that you don't get to see her that much
makes it even more sweeter if you went through
the trouble to see her and ask her out.
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most girls tend to like the in person thing a lot more. i wouldn't really like it cause if a guy i didn't like was askng me out in person, it'd be harder to say no.
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in person. more meaningful and yah haha best of wishes
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Trust me.. most girls would rather be asked out in person. Over the phone is too impersonal, and that's exactly what girls don't like out of a guy.
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Her bday came and when....i wonder if telling her now is a good time....
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my advice is to NEVER ask a girl out on her birthday or yours. It's just plain stupid, to me. Sorry, but i just think it's kinda stupid. For example, if she says no, then you two feel awkward and it ruins her birthday cause now she's sorta lost the connection with one of her friends, you know? Either that or she says yes because she'll feel bad if she doesn't. Especially if you asked her to go out with you on your birthday.
...anyways. i think it's like 20394820938402938409238409 times more meaningful and sweet if you ask her out in person. If you're going to do it, then do it face to face. don't be a whimp, you know?
I think what you did for her when she started breaking down was suuuuper nice and sweet. :]
