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Aight, lets start from the beginning. The girl was in my English class, and we use to have this eye contact that made me go wow. On the last day of school I missed my chance of saying anything to her and felt regretful. After school(on the same day), my friends and I went to Jack in the Box which is a street away from our school, and luckily I saw her there. I again, as a shy person didnt say anything, and she left again, and I felt regretful. She ran back into Jack in the Box and told me have a great summer and ran back outside. My friends were like is she your gf? I told em I wish.. A few hours later it was graduation night. I'm in band, so I have to go and play. I didnt see her there, and after the graduation, I was standing out in front of the stadium where the graduation was held, and luckily we saw each other. So basically, we met each other at the very very end of everything. We talked on AIM and myspace since it's summer. I asked her if she wanted to hang out with me, but eventually I asked her to a date. She said yes, but unfortunatly she had to go to her dads on the same day. Since then we just talked and talked, and talked... lol, anyways, I didnt find a chance to ask her out again, it might be because I'm losing interest in her because I know too much of her. It's been 3 months now, and I havent asked her out. I really dont know what to do. I don't want to ask her if she likes me still, cause she'll probably say maybe or a soft ya... I havent actually got to talk to her in person for more than 5 minutes cause we barely have anytime to talk to each other. We have no classes, and even lunch together. It sucks.. If it was you, what would you do? sorry if my story was confusing.. probably was.
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it seems like you still sorta have that little intrest in her even tho you say you dont, since you kinda upset about having no classes together.. just ask her out, and from then on if you still have no intrest in her then you dont
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uhmm..
how can u have no time to see her....
or any time to talk face to face...
if u cant even do that..
i dont think there is any point in starting a relationnshup with her...
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uhmm..
how can u have no time to see her....
or any time to talk face to face...
if u cant even do that..
i dont think there is any point in starting a relationnshup with her...
yup, that's one reason why i don't want to get into something serious, feels like a long distance relationship.
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ahh so she wasnt mysterious anymore , so you lost interest . yea this stuff happens . ifyou lost interest dont start anything with her .. just move on
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I think i understand what you're talking about.
If im wrong, then yeah...ignore my post.
You're still upset from not seeing her in school
You're posting about her on soompi
So you still have some interest in her.
I bet that if you hang out with her for a while
There will be sparks going on
Basically....
Once a guy likes a girl
He will like her for a while
Even if its really little
Unless something happens
That you dont believe is right
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no gain no pain....if you loose interest in her..just drop it and move on....
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You should try to see her more.
It could sort out your feelings.
And let you know if you would rather continue with her or not.
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hi '..'Wanki'... ;
~~you say you know Her Too Much; sounds to me like you don't quite yet know her well enough! I'd be curious to know her better than you have described her--so far.
~~too bad too, seems like you two might make a nice relationship. you mentioned 'grad/band'; what grade are you both/each in and what afterclass 'activities'?
~~when i really want something/someone badly enough, i will MAKE time to find her,Somewhere on campus or at the SweetShoppe, or whereever!
~~it rather 'sounds' like you lassoed a lass, but doesn't really have the nerve to reel her in. don'no 'bout you dude--but my suggestion: Just Do It. (so what, whatever happens after that. let life live from there on.) (IMG:style_emoticons/default/mellow.gif)
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i don't think it's possible to know a person too much after talking to them for ONLY 3 months. you probably think you've got her all figured out, but there's still so much more to a person than that.
it doesn't sound like you could have a relationship with her that would work out - you make it sound so hard to spend time with her and talk to her in person. you could always just ask her to go somewhere with you and do something together, but if you can't make time for her and she can't make time for you, just don't even bother. your feelings for her don't even sound that strong anyways.
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So it's been three months and you find yourself loosing interest in her already?
Isn't that a little too fast?
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I don't think you are losing interest cause you know her too well.
Scratch this if I'm wrong but I think it's more like you have no interaction with her that you're losing interest.
I'm on of those out of sight, out of mind type of people. Maybe this goes for you too..
Anyways, try asking her to the movies or something and see if you still feel that spark.
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Maybe you guys can just be good friends now.
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please say something to her. don't be shy. she is interested if she agreed to the first date. don't let both yourselves wonder what could've happened.
best of luck!
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Ok, so with the same girl, I asked her if she she's going to the homecoming, but she said she's going with one of her friends, which is also a girl, so I'm not sure if I should ask her... lol anyways, I do think I know her too much, it's confusing, but it feels as if we're exactly the same. We think and like almost the same things. lol its confusing to actually say in words.. lol.
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Um...you can't know a person too well. Especially if you've only been talking online.
Sure, talking online can tell you a lot about what she does blah blah blah, but you really need to interact with her outside of cyberspace to really get to know her.
If you feel that you don't like her anymore because you know her too well, then that probably means your interest is waning.
