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I am certain this has been brought up once more or less..
So I am in a relationship..but because of that, more girls flirt with me..and furthermore, one of my ex wants to be with me again. I am friends with all of them..and really good friend with my ex too. My s.o. has some irritation with this because..well who wouldn't. But I don't know how I can make her feel better because I am not one to give up my friends for a relationship..She trusts me, but she does not trust my friends.
And would hanging out with that ex be wrong in any way? She has arranged to see me sometime in the next few weeks..and I don't want my S.O. to be worrying -____-;
Good day.
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I think in a way, it does make one seem a little more attractive. For once, a friend of mine is the most obvious example to me. She's been rejected by technically ALL of the guy she's ever been interested in, and was getting more desperate as the days go by. However, since she met this one guy and now he's her boyfriend, she has become more confident and does have that glowing happiness to her and I guess that does look more attractive.
Back to your situation, since you said it's not you that she doesn't trust, but it's your friends, I think it's not because of the ordinary friendship that you have with them that she has a problem with, but it's more due to their (possible) flirtatious way when interacting with you. I can understand why your S.O. isn't too thrilled about this because well, she's your ex and something did happen in the past between you guys. I know that from soompi, I've learned that quite a few ppl actually become close friends with their ex, but from what I've seen around me in reality, that didn't happen to many people at all. Besides, can't you not have some of your friends to join you when you hang out with your ex? I have many close guy friends, but rarely ever hang out with any one of them alone; it's more fun with more people anyway.
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People just like to have things they don't have...
as for u hanging out with ur ex.... i think i'd be a lil uncomfortable if i had a bf that did that too... i mean something DID happen in the past between the two of u guys... so what's there to stop that from happening again?
if u hung out with ur ex... try keeping it from being a one-on-one... especially since u said ur ex wants u back.... a lil dangerous there...
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Simple as this : People want things that they dont have.
Same with guys, they'll like a girl
But wont start taking action
Until their taken, cause its a challenge.
Dont hang out with your ex 1v1
Go out in a group or a 3rd party.
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you guys give good advice. yeah i think i will try that instead. sounds more safe..
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I only hang out with single people.
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Yes.guys look attractive when they are in a relationship.please do not fall for any of em.stay with your girl.
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For guys it is, but for girls it is more like an easy target for guys to get.
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stay with your gur, plz plz, try not to have a party for two if your partner is not your gf
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Try getting married. You have to beat them off with a stick. Im like where the hell was all this two years ago
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Yeah it is... it means you're taken, you're special, you're off the market and other girls are willing to be with you. They want to know what's so special with you and etc. It's crazy but it's true.
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i think it does...ppl think hey she/hes good enough to get a gf/bf....sounds like hot property i want some of that. hahahaha=]
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Try getting married. You have to beat them off with a stick. Im like where the hell was all this two years ago
Hhahahaahaha this made my day. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/laugh.gif)
