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i've never been a petty person, but recently i fell out with 3 friends...the thing is, one of them apologized but i keep ignoring him...now everyone thinks im petty but i feel as if im better off not having them as friends...i dont hate them or hold a grudge, its just that i will treat them as complete strangers....like i know i should forgive the one guy because he's making an effort but i'd rather not,...its not like i hate him but i dont like him either..im just apathetic pretty much...any of u guys have falling out stories and is it wrong of me?
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may i ask what exactly is the problem...did they insult you or something...saying that you are not pretty...in my opinion you shouldn't just treat them as complete strangers...learn to forgive...it will make you feel better..good luck on that (IMG:style_emoticons/default/smile.gif)
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EDIT : [That was wrong of me, I'm sorry. ]
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if I was really honestly friends with that person, I'd apologize first
but I once apologized to my friend and she sort of yelled at me for doing so, so I'm not apologizing much anymore ~_~
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you could had at least tell him that you have forgiven them(if you have for whatever they've done) and tell him that you just think that you two shouldn't be friends anymore. at least then he won't think of you as a total b/it/ch and you won't have left him hanging thinking does she really does hate me that much for *insert what he did*?.
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well it depends what the did. so far from what you've posted i can't really tell if you are petty or not.
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well if they make an effort to apologize i think you should forgive him. it wont feel very good if they just stop and give up on you. well it depends~ what did they do to you? (IMG:style_emoticons/default/ph34r.gif)
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to be honest, it really depends on the situation. i cant give an advice/opinion if this is all u'll provide
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Honestly.. yeah it's wrong of you. You're acting like a biatch or something. Not to say you're one, just that you're acting bi.tchy towards people that want to make up with you.
You could at least say hi to them and apologize. of course. Why are you even asking?
don`t go around the swear filter.
let me give you a scenario.
say some guy raped you
no proof so you couldn`t report it
later he says he was drunk he feels bad and wants to apologize
but you wantto ignore him
but he wants forgiveness.
see? you don`t even know the situation
and what the hell you`re asking her to apologize? seems liek they did something wrong and THEY need too.
to the topic starter i can`t answer TILL i know the situation lol
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^- yeahh you have to tell us what exactly happened before you can make a real judgement whether or not you're being petty or not
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don`t go around the swear filter.
let me give you a scenario.
say some guy raped you
no proof so you couldn`t report it
later he says he was drunk he feels bad and wants to apologize
but you wantto ignore him
but he wants forgiveness.
see? you don`t even know the situation
and what the hell you`re asking her to apologize? seems liek they did something wrong and THEY need too.
to the topic starter i can`t answer TILL i know the situation lol
Yeah. I guess.
I should have tempered myself.
Of course if it's rape or something that has to do with violence it's understandable and not forgivable.
But I still think that she should apologize because she says she doesn't have a grudge so it's probably not something really bad and unforgivable.
