Boyfriend/husband Who Smokes/drinks...party Too Much

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DO you guys ever get worried about your boyfriend when they smoke or drink too much/often?
How do you tell them to stop? My boyfriend smokes 2 cig. every hour or so..it scares me because we promised we would marry and stuff..but what if he ends up with cancer?..
What do you guys say to your boyfriends when they smoke or drink too much?
also...My boyfriend really loves to party...he parties 2x a week..whenever he tells me hes going out..i get soo worried...if he mets another girl thats better then me..what do you guys do in this situation?
is anyone in the same situation as me?
(sorry if this is a useless thread)^^;;
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thats badddddddddddddd
he seems outgoing too.
he seems like he still doesnt care much about you and still go out and party. - _- either way, yur too good for him
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i love this quote and so should you An eye for an eye!
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Well, if you don't like how some guys smoke and party so much, then why date them?
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DO you guys ever get worried about your boyfriend when they smoke or drink too much/often?
How do you tell them to stop? My boyfriend smokes 2 cig. every hour or so..it scares me because we promised we would marry and stuff..but what if he ends up with cancer?..
What do you guys say to your boyfriends when they smoke or drink too much?
also...My boyfriend really loves to party...he parties 2x a week..whenever he tells me hes going out..i get soo worried...if he mets another girl thats better then me..what do you guys do in this situation?
is anyone in the same situation as me?
(sorry if this is a useless thread)^^;;
How old are you?

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Because emotion conquer all! right ?D
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MUGETSU_DJ.Ace
im 18
lalalaaa
i'm with him because i love him.kk?

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I'm helping my boyfriend quit on smoking, and you should just take away his cigarette if he smokes.
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well, did u evur TALK to him, in a serious talk about it ? that u care for him nd u dont want him to hav lung cancer or somethin from smokin too much ? ... use tha patch (IMG:style_emoticons/default/biggrin.gif)
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AHHAHAHAHAHHAHA awwwwww you guys plan to get married, PFFFFFFFf yeah right, if you're under 18 you probably won't.
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have a really serious talk with him about it. maybe even mention if you love me... it might work. then again, it might not. it might actually cause more trouble. but anyway, don't keep it a secret from him. it's good to share your feelings to him even if he doesn't reciprocate. best of luck!
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talk to him & tell him how you feel, durrr.. tell him it bothers you a lot & that you're really concerned for him. if he really cares & loves you, then i'm sure he would make an effort to quit smoking & less partying.
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yeah talk to him.
personally...i wouldn't go into the promising marriage thing. I mean its real cute...but i wouldn't promise something like that to a guy like that.
I would feel kinda insecure.
But then again, i don't know what he is like and maybe he is a nice guy who really will promise you a happily ever after.
hope ur love will conquer it alllllllllllllllllll~~~~~~~~~~
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i love this quote and so should you An eye for an eye!
yeah... this is how i stop a heavry smoker bf of mine... (do this only when talk doesn't work)
1st - find out things that he get annoys when u do it... (threat him by doing so, let him knows how u feel the same as he did when he smokes)
2nd- party, you also tell him you are going out too... but make sure dun go to the same club (well, u can u choose to lie and that requires a very good acting/pretending skill)... but this is to proof that u r as much out going as him...
if no changes after all this, just dump him cuz he doesn't even care for you...
it works for me... good luck
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I make my bf give up cigar fer me. and he's stop XD and he doesnt regulary goes to party or drink.. but he's very outgoing.. and practically, he doesnt want me to worryXD
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well i wouldn`t go out with such a guy
i despise smoking because many of my family members have died from lung cancer and such...
drinking is ok for me in moderation to be social
partying? i better be there dude lol
all in all to avoid such a guy don`t be his gf
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yeah, my ex was like that.
i mentioned it bothered me, and he stopped for a bit.
...just raise your concerns, be like i don't think i can be with someone who smokes/drinks too much.
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for me..
smoking is a complete turn off.
in a relationship, i`m looking for somebody i`m gonna marry in the future. I don't want my kids to die of 2nd hand smoking.. or him to die of lungcancer.
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you love him but he makes you worry. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/sad.gif) that's bad.
charge him $5 for every cigarette he smokes, and $20 every time he goes partying hahaha. i'm kidding.
well yeah a -serious- discussion is necessary. tell him you're worried when he smokes and when he parties.
and if you guys uh promised to get married, you should be able to have such discussions. if you can't, i suggest you forget about spending your life with him.
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no good for u. even tho i don't know anything else about him... personally, there are just certain things that rules out a peron's date-ability, and smoking/partying too much would never make up for how amazing of a person he might be. i don't mean to sound rude but i'm just trying to give u some honest words based on my experience. i mean if u guys weren't serious and just messing around, then smoking/partying, whatever. but u're talkin about marriage here....guys who go out all the time.... it's just a big risk that's gunna be a burden on u in the long run. and being a chain smoker....he will also harm u and ur future children.
sure u might try to change him, and maybe he'll change...but who knows. u'll have to deal with those things and suffer. my philosophy is....there are many fish in the sea....there will be someone else if u are patient. someone that u don't have to change so much about.
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