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REALLY LONG!!!!
and on the graphic side too...
oookay I know I'm going to get judged for this, but w/e.
Halloween day, my carpool and i couldn't find a ride home b/c one of the moms is currently in California.
Anyway, we snuck onto one of the school buses and went to a friends house.
A good 10 people are there, only about half I know, and half of that half I know vaguely.
Well there's a couch, a loveseat, and a lounge chair in this living room, and I got stuck on the couch with about 4 other people.
A friend of mine, S, (who I think has liked me for a while) was being an adorable dork and took about half an hour to put his arm around me because I would be scared. I don't scare easily. At all.
But after that movie, the entire group started walking around the neighborhood and S and this other guy G were doing things like tickling me and poking my tummy all day.
AT one point we went ot the park and the guys were playing football. S and G took their shirts off (IMG:style_emoticons/default/sleep.gif) '.
When we left the park G already had his shirt back on, but S kept his off, not knowing that G had his on already.
S asks me,hey, does G have his shirt on?
i said yes
S says, then i guess i should have mine on too
Well anyway, we go back to the house around 9 or so and we decide to watch another movie.
S on my right, and G on my left.
Most of the people are in the kitchen at this point and there are 7 people in the living room,I think about 9 more people joined us through out the day.
G has popcorn and even though I protest, S pratcially force-feeds me the popcorn.
Well S accidentally drops a piece of popcorn on my shirt, and G reaches for it, but it falls in and G just kinda goes after it.
Im kinda known for my chest (IMG:style_emoticons/default/sleep.gif) '
Well S had to leave, so it was just G and me.
We were surrounded by pillows and G (who's dating a friend of mine) starts stroking my arm underneath all the pillows.
(note** I'm possibly the most virgin virgin there was)
Well I just froze because he was coming on to me and i really let no guy touch me...
but he kept doing more crap like holding my hand, and then he starting stroking my thigh.
and his other hand started going up my shirt.
I really didn't know what to do b/c the house was full of people and I didn't want to start this huge commotion.
but I guess he was trying to turn me on because he kept stroking my arm and my thigh and then he took my left hand a had me grab his penis. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/sleep.gif) '
I had no idea what to do, but he kept doing stuff and pulled it out his boxers.
Then he asked me if I wanted to go upstairs, and I said no.
and then he asked me if I wanted to go outside. I agreed, meaning to tell him to stop.
But two of our friends were on the front porch so he made some bsy excuse saying I left my purse outside somewhere and he was helping me find it.
Then he led me to the back of the house. This is the point where I remind him he has a girlfriend. To which he replies, but I like you a lot.
and he asked if I wanted to have some fun, and I couldn't respond.
I kept saying things like we shouldn't do this, you shouldn't do this, what about your girlfried etc. etc.
and then he says, okay, well I need to get this out my system.
I'm freaking out on the inside, but I just froze.
All of a sudden he kisses me (my first kiss.. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/sleep.gif) '), and then his hand goes up my shirt, and he starts unzipping his pants.
He pulls it out and grabs my hand and had me give him a handjob.
I know this sounds incredibly stupid, but I really had no idea what to do.
It then gets worse because his hand comes out my shirt and starts going down my jeans, and that's when my mind kicked in and I pulled away.
I was saying no no no no no.
He asks me, what's wrong? what's wrong?
and I said you shouldn't be doing this. What about your girlfriend?
So then he stops, and we go back inside the house.
I don't know G very well, but these people do, and they suspected something had happened and two of my close friends pulled me out on the front porch and made me tell them.
The next day I told his girlfriend what happened, I think she dumped him.
Also the day that my sister tells me that my mom is on her way to take me off to Texas.
(My parents are divorced..)
So now I also have to leave allof my friends and family. It's crazy. SHE'S crazy.
I don't think she even thought about me having to start mid-semester.
I don't think she's even thought about a school or anything.
I really need some hard-core advice right now.
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what are you asking exactly??
on what to do about that guy? how to convince your mom not to move??
i'm confused (IMG:style_emoticons/default/sleep.gif) !
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just advice on how to handle things
my mom's comepletely bent on tearing me away from siblings and such
theyr'es no convincing her
but i feel like i'm about to break down and go nuts
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dude wtf.. dam dat sux.. trying to seduce u by taking shirt off then slowly reaching for u.. and dats so sick.. he was trying to get a one night stand w/o his GF knowing.. dam wtf..
well i think moving is a good thing kinda.. u start fresh.. and maybe get a better gang of friends.. kinda.. dats so rape man.. id report it.. =/
sry im no therapist xD lol i guess u feel bad cuz u feel violated.. and stuff.. man dat fking sux =/ main reasons u shouldnt go to a party.. cuz party is usually for ppl who want 1 night stands i guess.. the types of people that goes there are expecting that kinda.. and dat G guy can go to jail for raping you man, u didnt do anything and such.. man dats fked up.. yeh
sry i cant really help..
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i'm slowly getting over it b/c i'm realizng there isn't a right for me to complain a lot of girls get a lot worse things done to them
but leaving everybody is just killing me
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ill be your new frend if you move to houston haha =D buh yea that was x_x and then blah blah blah ...what everyone else been saying so far _ (IMG:style_emoticons/default/crazy.gif)
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damn sorry, lol three hours off
i'm moving to austin
i wish it was houston though, i know some people there who had to move because of a stupidhirrcane *cough* katrina
i'm from new orleans
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well u can get new friends kinda =/ i guess.. heh i want new friends.. i want to move and stuff too but im kinda settled here.. who knows, life is uncertain, maybe its ur destiny to move and meet someone nice ^^
if you think positive, its going to be
if you think negative, its going to get worse..
so i guess accept it.. as time will pass and your soul has to follow..
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ahahah hopefully someone tall
i'm known as the tall asian chick w/ big boobs (IMG:style_emoticons/default/sleep.gif) '
i'm not even that tall
seriously
5' 5''
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lol austin x_x thats gay should really move houston its better haha =] and i need some more frends lol
har har har im taller then youu too
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i might be able to go to houston on weekends or something *sigh* wth am i going to tell my school
i'm only a junior
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dam asian girl with big boobs is rare.. lol wow a 16 year old with D cups.. no asians have that in my school.. and its like 40% asian..
man id still report rape.. go to police station and report.. man he would try to touch other girls and try to have sex with them.. before more girls are harmed, id report.. =/ most rapes are unreported but yeh.. if he made u handjob and stuff.. thats fked up..
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i don't think he'd rape anyone, he's just an immature horny b@stard
AHAH wow 40% asian
mine's like 20-30% and i've got the second biggest chest, there's a senior i know what friggin basketballs on her chest
how she can stand
i don't know
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Okay. You were seriously violated. I'm sorry, I don't know how to help with that situation.
Your mother wants to take you away. I think you should talk to her about it and try to make her understand that you don't want to go. (You don't want to go right?) There's nothing much you really can do. Just tell her what you are feeling currently and that you want to finish your current school or something. Sorry, hope this helps & good luck.
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thanks for trying to help, but my motehr is THE most unreasonable person in the world
she refuses to acknowledge that my school is one of the top highschools in the country
she also refuses to recogtnize that i had a plan.. finish high school, go to a school hear for undergrad majoring in pre-optometry
then transfering to the university of houston for optometry...
well that plan's dead (IMG:style_emoticons/default/sleep.gif) '
originally, her plan was to take me AND my younger brother off to texas, but i don't want my brother to suffer too
so i convinced her to let him stay to finish the 8th grade here because his school year's paid off for already
as for me, i go to a charter school (check out newsweek's top 100 schools list.. we're mentioned somewhere )
i'm not worried about my self school-wise because the school i go to (that i'm about to withdraw from) has a 99.9% of it's students going off to colleges...
but my brother goes to a catholic school right now, and if he starts school late then i'm scared he won't be able to catch up to the curriculum
for me, there's no hope
i'm withdrawing tommorow
so the most i can do is protect my brother
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How could you not know what to do? Is it that hard to stand up and move? Wouldnt that be smarter than letting a guy feel you up ?
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well i guess i did, but i couldn't bring myself to for some reason
it's like i couldn't because i was scared that people would believe him and not me
which is what's happening now (IMG:style_emoticons/default/sleep.gif) '
he's told people that he was drunk
he didn't drink anything at all...
