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I've had the worse experience with friends... I've grown up moving around (for every year i went to a new school) so I never had a childhood friend. I try keeping in touch with people but it usually doesn't work too well. These days, I don't really talk to anyone or go out much... I say no to going out and stuff because I usually don't feel like going anywhere.
I have a boyfriend that's controlling so he doesn't like me going out with my girls and that stuff and the girls i hangout with don't really like him. I don't go out but apparently he can go everywhere without me.
... idk what to do... i don't even know if i should've even posted this.. *sigh* (IMG:style_emoticons/default/sad.gif)
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I feel you. When i was 7 years old i moved and left all my good childhoods friends, after that i never had a real friend, so when friends ask me to go out i usally say no.
At least you have a bf, im totally lonely but i think you should tell your bf that you need some other friends, tell him how you feel. I bet he has boy friends that he hangs out with, if so than you should have the right to hang with your friends.
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yeah i was talking to one of my friends and she told me there's no way i coulda grown up without ppl around. I'm an only child, and it's always been just me and my mom i was scared to make friends cuz we moved around so much and now when i make friends they tend to either take advantage of me or some sorta drama erupts.
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i know what you mean. i've moved a lot too and i'm moving again, just when i actually have a close best friend and a bunch of other close friends too. i'm changing school in february and i'm going to the school of one of my friends(the good thing about going to a french school where i live, everybody practically knows everybody even if we don't go to the same school) so it won't be that bad but after that, i'm moving to another province and what sucks is that in that province, i'll be going into 11th grade and its going to be my senior year so its pretty thing for me. cause probably, everybody has their own groups and everything soo it'll be hard for me to find someone to replace the friends i have now. and plus, i know that if i stay, and when i'm going to be in 12th grade, if there's any new students they'll probably feel left out cause they won't understand the way we talk and joke around. so it'll probably be the same thing for me when i move, except i'll just be in 11th grade.
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dump that loser of a boyfriend and go out and have some fun while your still young.
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Been there. I've moved around so much in life that it's become hard to gain good friends. It's a problem that exists for me today. Even though every now and again I gain a good friend. Don't give up on trying to make new friends. Sooner or later it will happen.
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it must really suck having to move that much, i think that your bf is a little way too much, he doesn't seem to care how you feel, if he truely likes you, he'll be okay to hang out with your girl friends. i think that in a way friends are more important and they're really hard to find a good trustworthy friend.
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Thanks for the advice everyone. I'm gonna keep up my hopes of making friends. In the mean time with my boyfriend, I'm gonna talk to him about how I feel.. hopefully that helps.
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You should tell your boyfriend how you feel. What kind of a boyfriend anyways if he doesn't let you hang out with your friends or doesn't let you go out at all? He's not your dad. If he loves and understands you, then he should let you have fun.
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It's funny how I made a thread with that title too. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/laugh.gif)
I can relate to you in some way. I'm an only child and I don't go out much.
But it must be hard for you to make friends since you move so much.
But why do you have to move so much?
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I feel the same way. I thinks my family has moved about 7 or 8 times since I was born...I've been to about 9 or 10 differents schools and I it pretty much sucks. I make friends and them I move, and I don't keep in touch because we weren't close anyways. But yeah, just talk to your guy about it. he seems controlling and who knows what he's doing without you around.
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For me i had a group of friends. Very close but now we all went our seperate ways and it sux. I try to stay intouch but somehow it seem different now. They all have a group of their own and i feel like i don't fit in anymore. It just me now and it hard to make new friends since work take up all my time. Ohh well life still goes on......Blah and my b-day coming up too........
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there are friends and then, there is that boyfriend.
you shouldn't give up your freedom to hang out with your friends just 'kuz you're in this controlling relationship.
