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I'm waiting for the bus and everyones lined up. Two asian girls (I bet you hong kong, no offense but many hong kong girls got problems with Korean girls in my neighbourhood) are in front of me. One of them turns around looks at me up and down and up and down smiles,turns back to her lil' friend whispers and giggles.Her friend then turns back and looks at me and whispers back to her female dog. this goes on for 20 min. Everyone's lined up facing forward except this lil' female dog. Now it pisses me off and I wanted to punch her in the face, but there were people around so I held in but made sure I stayed close enough for her through out the whole wait and the bus ride. Then as she was getting off the bus I stepped over her heels in attempt of something evil, but clearly I didn't do it hard enough because she got off perfectly fine.
I dunno what was so funny about me but she certainly wanted me to say something back to her. This girl is totally facing me with crossed arms checking me out and laughing.
I'm not assuming they were talking about me because they were obviously... ppl don't always come up to stranger's face.. likeliterally up to ur face (literally close enough to look STRAIGHT into you eyes and laugh at you for 20 min. (strangers because I don't know her but we go to the same school)
Now, is it just me or do these things bother you girls too? If so what you guys do?
UPDATE: turns out she was laughing at me about my clothes and bag . I was wearing the same brand name bag as her jacket..which don't look good onme because I'm short (5'2 and was holding one of those coach's gym bags made for taller people) T_T I found this out today from a girl who was also at the bus stop..btw it's a school bus stop.
it's not fair short girls can't wear certain things! actually this isn't the first time girls spoke behind my back about me being short and that I still LIKE clothes that look good on supposedly taller girls.
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Well you just validate what ever smack talking they did about you in attempt to get back to them. Even if they didn't talk about it out loud, they'll probably think about it in their head. What can you do then? You can't dictate their thoughts. I learn to ignore such people and not take it so personally. It makes life a little bit easier.
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....are you sure you're in the right forum? Anyways, who cares what they say. It's not like they're any special. I mean... they're still riding the same bus you're on, aren't they?
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I'm pretty sure it's not only you who get bothered with those things... it's just different people has different approach.
Some girls did that to me and I was like WTH?! Oh well, I didn't care so I just ignore them.
Those rude girls need proper teaching.
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that didn't happen to me before but i would be mad if they were giving me dirty looks/talking about me
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yeh. those kinda gurls annoy me...
the only thing u cn do is ignore
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Next time push her and pull her hair. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/smile.gif)
-Luna-
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Well you just validate what ever smack talking they did about you in attempt to get back to them. Even if they didn't talk about it out loud, they'll probably think about it in their head. What can you do then? You can't dictate their thoughts. I learn to ignore such people and not take it so personally. It makes life a little bit easier.
=] i seriously agree with this person's words.
and don't get mad or anything!! That's worse! cuz it makes u seem hurt by their actions.
just ignore them and u'll be much more calm.
they won't have any effect on u then.
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I hate those kinds of people, if I were you, I would come to them and pinkberry slap them, my temper is very bad ___;
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Get up in their faces next time and ask them what they are looking at.
People back down when confronted.
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....are you sure you're in the right forum? Anyways, who cares what they say. It's not like they're any special. I mean... they're still riding the same bus you're on, aren't they?
right forum? not sure myself. where you think this belongs to?
Well you just validate what ever smack talking they did about you in attempt to get back to them. Even if they didn't talk about it out loud, they'll probably think about it in their head. What can you do then? You can't dictate their thoughts. I learn to ignore such people and not take it so personally. It makes life a little bit easier.
you are so right.
often times I ignore but today I just couldn't. My bad.
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yup you are in the right forum
people who look down on others are just doing it to make themselves feel better, know that and feel good (IMG:style_emoticons/default/smile.gif)
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it's good that you kept your cool...or tried to~ dealing with ignorant ppl are just a waste of your good time..no point in getting violent either cause that will just piss you off even more if they hit u back (which they probably will)...just be the bigger person...
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people like that are b1tches.
anyways, i just ignore them
before, i use to b1tch at them
shut them down badly
but then i felt bad for them
just the kinda person i am.
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WOW....extremely immature.
I think you should grab a random person/friend and do the same thing she did to you. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/laugh.gif)
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if those kind of things happen to me i would always give them the dirty look
and they would shut their mouth right away
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Oh boy. If that EVER happens to me, no doubt, I would 'literally' starts asking them question like, You got any problem? WIth an attitde, or even if they still laughs, I WOULD and WILL, laugh in their face and talk about how ugly they look right in front of their face. I WOULD do that. Or maybe i qould just punch them --end of discussion (I don't play around w/ ppl like them. And ppl need to teach them lessons too (IMG:style_emoticons/default/dry.gif) )
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I would get mad as well... next time step on her heels harder! hahaha
a similar thing happen when I was in HS, I was with 2 of my friends one korean guy and one malaysian girl. we were minding our own business standing in line for one of those photo sticker booth. There were these 2 Chinese gurls in front of us in line, who kept turning to stare at us up and down, whisper to each other and then giggle.... they kept doing that every frickin' second. At first I was like whatever.. but they kept doing it so I whispered to my friend and was like wtf is their problem? she's like yeah I know... we gave them a dirty look but they kept staring. so my girl friend and I started dissing them we were like you stare again I'm gonna poke ur eyes out hahaha... they acted as if they didn't hear us. my guy friend was like telling us to calm down... he was like you guys have a bad temper, I don't even think those girls are staring at us anyway after he said that, those chinese girls did the whole stare and giggle thing and suddenly he just blew up and started shouting at the girls.. he was like wtf are u looking at? u guys keep staring at us every 2 second wtf is ur problem? those gurls got so shocked they didn't do it again. one of the girl was wearing a tank top and had a really bad looking tan line on her shoulder, after my guy friend blew up he was like btw, that's a really ugly tan line the girl didn't dare to turn and look at us but she covered her shoulder. Me and my girl friend were laughing our ass off.
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are you sure that they were discussing you though?
i suppose i would have done the same in the situation considering that there were others at the bus stop. if there were fewer then i may have asked them what their problem was. sigh.
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there are stupid people everywhere..
yeah.. ^ pull her hair.
i remember in middle school.. this girl pulled off all the bangs of this girl.. hell yea, it's true.
