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Can u love someone but not care for that person. i have a bf n i know that he loves me but i dont think that he cares for me at all.
Like i fell last Mon, and he never asked me how i feel or if im getting better. i wanted to asked him why he never asked me that but i cant. i dont know what to say
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well if your bf doesnt care bout yu, i dont think he loves yu or cares bout your relationship, you should just ask him if he really loves and cares bout yu. i think caring and loving is just the same thing.
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hmm wow, i don't think that he really loves you then because if you love someone, you'll definitely care about that person.
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u cant not CARE for someone if u LOVE that someone...
caring comes with loving..
so if he doesnt care... maybe u should reconsider if he truely does love u?
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I don't know maybe he does love you and care for you but is not very good at showing how much he cares. Sometimes I really care about someone but I'm not very comfortable at expressing my concern.
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i dont know, we had some arguements recently n he keep saying that he will be more sensitive and care for me, but i never felt that he does. maybe he doesnt love me enough like u guys said. im so confused, b4 i think i can love him enough that i dont need him to care, but now i want to feel that he care for me, or at least show that he does
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You don't really love someone if you don't care about them. Love and care go hand in hand.
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i'd have to agree with the other posters. if you don't care for someone, you don't love him/her either. although, it could be he has trouble expressing how he feels. sometimes people in new relationships play the hard to get game where they don't want to come across as overly zealous.
you mentioned that you know that he loves you. and i think you should ask yourself how you came to this conclusion.
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I don't know maybe he does love you and care for you but is not very good at showing how much he cares. Sometimes I really care about someone but I'm not very comfortable at expressing my concern.
I agree, sometimes I have trounle expressing myself too
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some people dont like to show their emotions but even if they try not to show emotions you would still be able to tell that he cares, so if he loves you like he says he does then you should be able to see that he cares
