Question:
My problem is I don't know whether or not i should stop liking my ex-boyfriend.
We are both seniors in high school, although he is almost a year older than me. We dated and broke up a couple of times during junior year, but we were always on good terms with each other, even after we had just broken up.
Now this year, he calls me a few times a week. Sometimes he'll call just to hear my voice and makes up an excuse for calling like i don't understand the spanish hw..could you explain it to me? even though it's a multiple choice workesheet...hehe. Or he'll call late at night and we'll talk for hours about the most random things. He also takes me out for ice cream, gives me rides home, etc.
Now here's the questionable stuff. I asked him out last month and he said no. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/sad.gif) I was so crushed that after he said no, I pretended like I had never even asked. Also, about half the times when we hang out, we end up hooking up in his car. When I asked him if he liked me he tries to change the subject or says something silly like no..I only like tall people. (he always jokes about my height)
Is this guy just using me as a hookup, or should i give it another chance?
Answer:
i can't see how your question and your situation relate
and to me i feel as if i want the reciprocate because i've been the other side for too long
and your ex is probably using you as a hook up no offence
he's been with you before so he's not afraid to ask
if he wasn't using you and he liked you, he'd ask you out again
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He knows that your sprung over him, he's just using you sexually. Since you two broke up, and you are unsure, and have doubt.. Straight up ask him what the hell do you want out of this? I just think he's using you, and the reason he takes you out and do all these nice things is SO he can continue doing what he is doing; you know, to keep him on the radar. Get it?
Answer:
Sounds to me as if he's just using you for some bootay. LOL. On a serious note, perhaps you should talk to him directly; I'm sure it can't be that uncomfortable to confront him since you guys are hooking up, chatting every now and then, and he's doing all these nice things to you. Just make sure that he isn't leading you on.
To answer your question, I would think that anybody would want the other person to have mutual feelings about them...
Answer:
Maybe he doesn't want to be committed in a relationship.
Answer:
he is taking u for granted\
he knows u like him still..
so he is kinda stringing u along...
until he findz a new gurl....
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in my opinion, after u break up u still miss that certain someone... like u can't just break up and never see each other...
i think he still treats u as a good friend in some ways, still missing those times and still missing those memories
but like i'm not exactly sure how ur break up went
but there was this one time this girl i always hung around with somehow got the idea that i liked tall girls... and like she was short... but like i believed that u can't like someone on their appearances... hmm... or maybe it's cuz i like her cuz she's short
the whole point is that liking someone is not dependent on their looks... in my perspective
Answer:
you should definitely move on.. he's just playing around with you & wants to be friends with benefits. it's nice that you guys are still getting along.. but if you guys sometimes start acting like a couple but he doesn't want to be in a relationship again, then he's just using you at times because he feels lonely.
