Question:
7 months ago this girl ive been seeing and myself went out and been together. She tells me last month that she has always been in doubt and didn't know if she could love me enough as a boyfriend and has been trying all this time and said she told me this before and i did suggest her to try. So now we are apart, and besides the whole intimate actions, everything has been the same. We go out to eat, she calls me all the time and wonders where im going when i tell her im going out, she expects me to walk her to class and wait or meet up when she ends. So is she basically just using me now? I love her to death, but seeing how much ive sacrificed for her and now she doesn't want to be with me, i really don't know what to do. A part of me tells me to keep on trying and be with her regardless of her ever coming back or not, and the other part tells me im just wasting my time and i should just stop loving her and just be friends mind set and greatly reduce the time with her and go out more....what do you guys think.
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shes afraid of commitment apparently...but the reason why she still expects you to do those things is that she still has feelings for you and she doesnt want things to change...well kind of. i know its hard to try to make it just friendship, but shes having a hard time too. and she wants to make sure things are going okay by doing the same stuff together.
i hope that helps...but im not a girl...however, im just telling you from past experiences. hopefully you get a girl's point of view (IMG:style_emoticons/default/smile.gif)
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^ well... could just be that she doesn't have that special something for you. But i guess it can be hard to let go of you since you've already been together for so long. So now you can either tough it out or hurt more in hopes that she'll develope more feelings for you. I think it might be better if you have a bit of time away from her, maybe she'll appreciate you more once she starts to miss you.
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^ well... could just be that she doesn't have that special something for you. But i guess it can be hard to let go of you since you've already been together for so long. So now you can either tough it out or hurt more in hopes that she'll develope more feelings for you. I think it might be better if you have a bit of time away from her, maybe she'll appreciate you more once she starts to miss you.
i agree...sounds like you do pretty much everything for her...don't get me wrong...there have been cases where the boy gets the girl to start liking him back because of all his effort but in your situation it seems like she's taken you for granted now that she knows how you feel about her. to find out whether she has any feelings for you...you have to let go a bit. it'll show her what she's missing out on if she felt the vibe. by the way you can't get someone to TRY to love you back...it just happens when if it does.
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I do everything, and her ex is in afghan and she still talks to him and tells him he misses him to death and says he loves her. Is it just possible she's just to into him. If so should i just forget about her if thats just the case
