Question:
There was this boy and girl who were in love. They met each other through mutal friends and they were together for 2 years. One day, the girl's parents decided to move to Seattle because of their buisness and she didnt want to move. She was 19 years old and was attending school in UCLA with her bf. After many fights and arguments... she decided that she will go to Washington State University for 2 years to finish and then come back to LA to be with her bf. They both agreed that they will try this long distance relationship.
2 years has past.... they been communicating everyday and seeing each other for holidays. She graduated from college and that summer she was planning on moving down south with her bf.
She drove her car 1500 miles or so and got to LA. She called her bf with anticipation of seeing him and he didnt pick up his phone. She got to his place and knocked on the door and no one answered. She remembered that she had a key to his apartment and went in. She looked around the apartment and saying tom are u here? tom? . She was depressed and sad. She wondered where he was.
Several hours past, and she left 4 or 5 voicemails on his cell phone. She was lying on the couch watching TV and worried on something has happened.
It was 10pm and the news was on TV. She was watching the news and saw a live report on a violent gang shooting. The newsreporter stated that 3 men has died and 5 were critically injured. While watching this.. she was thinking that her bf was involved with this because of the area that this happened. He worked at the nearby building and she noticed his car in the background.
She got out of the house and drove to the near by hospital to see if something has happened to him. As she arrived, she went to the counter to check to see her bf was checked in to this place. The front desk person said, there isnt anyone by that name checked in.
As she was somewut relieved.....she headed back and then she got a call.
Her bf called back and told her that he was coming home. She asked why he didnt pick up the phone or called back. He said that he had misplaced his phone and didnt get the message till now. She was mad at him but then again was happy that everything was ok and she was going to be with him soon.
On the drive back to his apartment.... she noticed that there was a car in front of her was going real slow. So she pulled past the car and took a look at the driver and noticed that it was her bf with another girl. She saw them laughing and saw how the girl was flirtagious with him and got her thinking that he might be cheating on her. Being distracted.....her car drifted to the oncoming traffic and got into a accident. Her car got T boned and her vehicle flipped 3 or 4 times. She was instantly dead.
Tom arrived at his apartment with his sister waiting for his gf. After hours of waiting....he heard that his gf died in the automobile accident.
Have u ever waited for something for so long? If you did... was it worth it?
People who wait have good patience...but those who are quick to react before understanding can lead to trouble.
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Ionno, but personally, I think that long distance relationships don't last that long...not that every long distance relationsip will have someone end up dying like this story lol but just from past experiences and friends' experiences, the relationship lasts only for a little while until the guy wants someone to actually touch and see every day or something like that. Not saying that every guy will fail in long distance relationships, but personally I think that guys have a harder time with the patience thing especially when the physical pleasures are on hold for a long time. One of the main reasons why the boyfriends broke it off in the past experiences of me and my friends in long distance relationships.
I agree with the whole misunderstanding thing. Misunderstandings definately cause a lot of drama . euk! I think it's always better to trust that person you're going out with cuz if there is no trust...what's the point in having a relationship with someone u don't trust? Hear things out from him/her. Women tend to overanalyze things because they're very emotional. Men should keep their girlfriends in mind when they're with other girls because what's the point in having a relationship if the guy doesn't consider his girlfriend when he's with some other girl?
If either partner in a relationship starts liking someone else, DON'T wait to tell the partner. Tell the person asap cuz it's just wrong to be in a relationship when the person doesn't love the other anymore...it's a lie..d@mn, this is long O_o did not expect this lol
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hmm, well, i personally am in a long distance relationship for about 5 months...yes, short, but at least it's still going and we're putting in the effort.
my good friend from freshman was together with her bf in high school for a year and now that we're 4th year, they're still together & it's quite a long distance...she's here in california & he's all the way in ny...so i think it's possible for long distance relationships to work out, maybe not every one of them?
anyway, hopefully i'll learn not to make quick judgments in the future if this does happen to me somehow. O_o;;
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awww that is so freaking sad...
People who wait have good patience...but those who are quick to react before understanding can lead to trouble.
its true...when you think about it...
well just hope everyone learned their lesson..
well just heading out then...
peace out...(IMG:style_emoticons/default/biggrin.gif) ...
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awwww....................... thatz so sad....
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long-distance relationships are hard.. ive learned it from experience.. sad story (IMG:style_emoticons/default/sad.gif)
