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ok , basically, here's what happened...
just like a week ago, i started talking with this girl on msn, and after that first initial talk, we've been talking every night (on msn)and just last night, i called her on the phone, and for some reason, the words, i like you, an di like spending time with you just came outta my mouth, and she said the same, and i guess we're together now, but here's the thing... right now i'm in university, without a car, and she's in her last year of highschool, and right now, the ajustment to university has put a LOT of workload on me, and i dont think i can go out of campus and relax until christmas time, and i obviously cant expect her to come all the way here by herself, not that her parents would let her newayz, so thatmeans we wont really see each other until chrstmas...
but here's thing, last night, which is our first talk on the phone,, and when i first told her that i liked her, we started talking about a lot of stuff about ourselves, and one thing led to another and she started talking about her ex and what she didnt like about him..... is this ok?? usually, the ex doesnt come up in your first phone convo with the girl rite?
and this other thing is that i'm not even sure if ilike her, cuz the thing is that i'm the type of person(sadly) that would LOVE to mimic whatever i se on TV, if i see like a doctor tv series, i wanna become a doctor, if i see a show about law, i wanna become a lawyer, i'm just afraid that i jumped into this relationship because i just watched this love drama series.... and i'm worried that i'll get bored of her very soon...andi know that's a horrible thing to do, but stil, i think she rushed into this too quickly as well, i'm not even a 100% sure what type of girl she is yet.... we met like a year ago at my volunteer place, back then i was involved in another relationship (which i wont get into for now), and we lost contact for like 4 months after i left that place, and just recently she found me on facebook, and she started talking again, too soon?
do i like her??
if it's wrong to go into a relationship with her... what should i do?????????????
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this is known as the passion at the moment --at least to me. It's when everything is fresh,new and exciting. Everybody tends to rush into things (especially when the feeling *at the moment* is so strong).
since you had already told her that, i think it isn't fair to tell her i think we made a mistake. You can always try to at least make it work until you reached the end of the road.
about the mimic the tv thingy...ah...you have to stop it
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If you have all these questions..........you probably DID rush it. One thing that should relieve you is that.........................You guys are ONLY dating. That means this is your time to get to know her. Who knows how you'll feel after knowing her. But wow, 1 week............that was fast.
You didn't like it when she talked about her ex right?
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I agree with alcyone, it's more of passion at the moment .... and i do think that you did rush into it a little too fast.
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If you think that you rushed into this... maybe you should tell her that you guys should take it nice and slow.
If you have to ask all of those questions, then it's too soon.
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Sorry, I think Chris was the one who typed my last message hahaha. Anyway, everything I had to tell you I told you last night.. So.. D: Good luck!!
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i think you rushed into it but you never know maybe the more you get to know her the more you might like her, even though this happened really fast it doesnt mean that its not possible that you like her
if you guys are in a relationship than you should tell her that you guys should hold off for a bit, cuz it would be sad if you guys went out but it didnt work out and you can't talk the same again
cuz you enjoy talking to her right? you guys should be friends and when you become closer and think you guys will be able to know if you should go out or not
cuz i mean i think that if this goes on... it might end up kinda... chaotic and all drama, if youre interested in her and her in you i think you guys will do fine waiting just dont stop talking keep talking to her =]
hope that was helpful
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my man my man my man . . .
u rushed into ur realationship?
y? and u still want open realationship with
others . . ?
oh god . . . .
ma man u hav to be careful being in a realation
say there is about 10million girls in the world that
u will end up like but only 1 million will work out with u
and u know that nowadays u can only hav one realationship
at a time its not like old days . . . .
that leave u with the possibility 1/1million
don't say that u knew this and rushed into realationship my friend . . . . .
u made a bad choice . . . . .
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yeahh sometimes i have that 'passion of the moment' like some soompiers wood call it too x.x
but u shood at least try to make it work :l
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i think saying i like you has nothing to do with being in a relationship
did either one of you say will you be my boyfriend/girlfriend? ??
1 week is super fast...
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hey sam =D
well... if you dont like her at all, i would end it.. but if you think you like her then try to make it work
