Question:
one of my friends is currently juggling 3 guys..but treats them all like serious boyfriends..I guess I'm weirded out yet kind of envious. as for me, I've flirted with or had very casual dates at most with 2 guys at one period of time but either both relationships usually fail to lead anywhere or I end up getting more serious with one particular guy of the two. I'm young I feel like I should be playing the field, but I guess not everyone has it in them? And also I have several friends that can have one boyfriend after another and they are decent guys too..as for me when I'm single I go through a looong dry spell before I meet a new guy. well, feel free to share interesting stories =D *btw, I'm in college..that's why I think this is the perfect time to play the field but for some reason..it just hasnt happened for me
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Juggling in high school is a dumb thing to do. Everyone knows each other in high school, and they have mouths wide as the Grand Canyon. So I don't suggest it, unless you want props from the guys and hate from the girls.
College level is pretty easy.
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I feel sorry for the guys your friend is going out with. They seem like pawns or something. I dunno why you'd be envious of that? Unless a lot of guys don't approach you. Then I wonder do the guys that show interest in your friend.. do they chase her for the right reasons? Does your friend let them know she's talking to other guys, and that she treats them like bf's? I don't think playing the field is for everyone. My thought about playing the field.. Well, I guess I see as being a player somewhat.
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it's never good to juggle.. everything will just all fall out of place..
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you need to surround yourself with a better bunch of friends. When did it become an accomplishment to cheat on people? How flippin' low is that..
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well.. i believe in Karma.. so what goes around comes around.. so you should ask your friends what if you in one of the guys position and found out?
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I'd suggest you don't go in that path. I mean.. how would you feel if you were 'juggled' like that? Imo, It'd probably go much smoother if you dedicated yourself to one person. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/smile.gif)
