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Okay, I'M A GUY.
I DUNNO WHAT TO DO! HELP~
Well, there was this girl that i've been liking for a long time... and apparently she had feelings for me as well..somewhat.
So yesterday night, i decided to ask her out... My friend helped me with alot of things (shes also a friend of the girl). My friend calls the girl to ask where she is, so I can go ask her the question.. so she happened to be at a karaoke with other girls. I practiced how i was going to ask her out and then left for the karaoke with a boquet of roses. however, when i got there.. i didn't know which room she was in, so i was outside with flowers in my hand in front of a bunch of people-_- as i called her continuously. I called atleast 3 times before i decided to call the friend.
my friend calls her with her phone and she said that the girl picked up her call and thinks that shes ignoring my call. After that i just left the place feeling hopeless and went back to my friend's house. My friend comforted me, but she became mad at the fact that she didn't answer my calls.
So she called her to confront her about it.. somehow she got to the point of asking whether she liked me or not... the girl couldn't answer... ( i dunno if thats a good thing, or a bad thing). My friend asked her to say yes or no but she couldn't respond. While this phone conversation was going on, i was next to my friend...just sitting there listening. lol. Then my friend suddenly goes.. you know he's right next to me, and you're on speakerphone right? Then it was quiet for a while... My friend told her to decide whether or not she likes me, so i can move on if i have to. The girl said she would decide soon.
So... What do I Do? I'm pretty clueless right now.. dunno what's going on. Girls are confusing.
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haha. you're story got me omg-ing. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/laugh.gif)
what can you do? what a bit and see what happens first.
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i guess you'll have to let time work it out for a bit..
Think! If you were her, why would you not say yes? Why would you not say No?
Alright, since guys in general don't know how to think like a girl, i'll think foryou.
i would say that she has slight feelings for you, but she probably has someone else in her life she is also waiting for.. you might be her backup, but hey.. maybe she is just playing hard to get.
keep in close contact with the friend who comforted you, she can help && she is someone you won't want to lose.
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speakerphone is a little intimidating..u know..... ;;;;;
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its easier to reject people than to admit you like a person so i think that she does have feelings for you which is why she's hesitating to give you an answer.
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her not answering might be a good thing. ... at least she didnt say no.. so thast good. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/happy.gif)
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You're probably pushing it too fast...let her breathe. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/wink.gif)
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i think shes feeling a little scared coz shes on speakerr phone x.x
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She probably needs time to think about it.
I mean, she might've had a clue that you were going to ask her
and she most likely got scared of the whole situations.
She's probably thinking of her deep feelings,
what might happpen next,
if its better for the two of you to stay as friends, etc, etc, etc...
Give it time.. im sure whatever happens, its for the better =]
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I'm sorry to say this, but from what you describe there, I dont' think she is very interested
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i don't think that she's interested to you that way. I'm sorry, but if a guy i like calls me,i'd answer it in split second. 3x means no...that's what happened with this guy who once liked me, i couldn't answer, not because i like him, but i just want us to be friends (he was gonna confess to me, like 5 times he tried to, in those 5 times, i managed to ran away before he got a chance to confess--a little input from his friend whom already convinced him that i don't like him that way)
he did confess on the 6th try, but my answer is still no. i don't like to reject..i hurt my friend, and i feel guilty everyday because of that
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i think you and your friend approached the whole situation wrong.
and im pretty sure that she is not interested with the results of the siuation.
you might as well move on.
at least you know you have a good friend by your side.
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if she already knew you liked her then she probably doesn't like you. if she doesn't know she probably does like you. or, she might really just be deciding, but i highly doubt that
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Tell her flat out that you want an answer then. You dont want to look completely desperate and that you have other things in your life to deal with.
Example being: girl tells you she'll call you to go somewhere on a date, she tell you the day, you say no, tell me what time youre going to call me. etc.
her not answering might be a good thing. ... at least she didnt say no.. so thast good. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/happy.gif)
lol i want him to do a complete turn around on the situation, tell her you dont like her and then make her think more about wtf happened and make her think more about him and contemplate.
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Wow- what happened? Does she like you or doesn't she?
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maybe she wasn`t answering your calls for a reason ?
theres always a reason to everything.
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i thnk that if she liked you then she would have told you right away, and you shouldn't be waiting for a girl who doesn't want to give you an answer, hoping that you would just leave her alone. i know it doesn't sound nice but that's the best way i can put it.
- mei lin
i dunno.. she might be the type who doesn't liek telling people how they feel and that kinda sucks putting her on the spot like that and MAKING her tell you her answer. i think that'd probably push her away or maybe it's liek what my friend mei lin said, but i think you should wait for her answer, unless she takes more than 2 weeks then just forget about it. it'd probably be better if you talked to her yourself though
- Alda
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maybe she does like you, but is just scared to get hurt.
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I say that you need to get over her.
If she can't answer a simple question, then she probably doesn't like you and doesn't want to hurt you.
Besides, the heart usually knows things like that before the mind does... So if she has to think about it, then she probably doesn't like you.
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I say that you need to get over her.
If she can't answer a simple question, then she probably doesn't like you and doesn't want to hurt you.
Besides, the heart usually knows things like that before the mind does... So if she has to think about it, then she probably doesn't like you.
ditto
