Question:
LETS CALL HIM... N.
My boyfriend and I have been going out for three months since the 20th.
I know it hasn't been that long.
So we used to be mad close.
We talked on the phone, texted.
But now, we just email not even twice a day.
It's hard for us to see eachother because he lives in NY, and I NJ.
And we can't drive. We also have crazy overprotective parents.
The last time I've seen him was about two months ago.
His parents dont know about us, but they kind of have a hunch.
And I feel like, im not even his girlfriend anymore.
I don't know what to do.
I was considering breaking up with him because
we dont see eachother, we dont talk, and I don't know what I feel anymore.
I feel as if I'm being held back. Like I'm tied down with a relationship that's not going anywhere.
But if I do decide to break up with him, how would I do it?
I def. don't want to do it online or whatever.
If I do, I would like to break up with him in person.
Ugh. I feel like such a b*tch.
comments? suggestions? help? __;;
Answer:
well.. long distance is hard.. im sure u've heard that before. some people's situations are even worse.. they start to feel like that after 2 years..
why not just break up over the phone?
Answer:
i know some people dont like breaking up over the phone or online, but why would you travel just to break up with someone, so i think you should do it over the phone or something
Answer:
k, you are NOT a btch. not even close, doode. wanting to do it in person rather then online or on the phone is the right way to go, but since it's a long distance thing, you should just do it over the phone. do it now instead of letting it drag on, y'know?
Answer:
Aww it's okay, I was in your position a few months ago; I hadn't seen my boyfriend for 2 months and we both have overprotective parents and stuff, but hey, we stuck through it. Just don't give up on it, unless you don't like him anymore. If you're ready to give up after 2 months, you don't really like him, it would be more like an infatuation. If you're really concerned, talk to him about it. hey, christmas break is coming soon, so theres a big window of opportunity to see him. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/wink.gif)
If you really feel like you don't want to be with him anymore, just call him up one day and see if you guys can meet somewhere in the middle, or do it over the phone. I think the phone is better since you can't see him, and its better to end it early than to let it drag out, kind of like leading him on.
Answer:
Hey, thanks guys (:
I think i'll hang on at least till winter break.
that way we can try to meet up and talk.
Although i don't feel like his girlfriend anymore...
maybe once I see him again maybe reality will hit me.
hopefully i'll still feel those sparks (:
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