Question:
Okay, so I'm 19, about to turn 20 soon. My name is Dianne.
There's this boy I'm interested in, and I have a feeling that he might have the slightest interest in me...
The thing is, I'm not sure if he really likes me or if I'm just crazily over analzying everything. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/sleep.gif) .
So I was just thinking, when YOU think that someone likes you, is it most likely true, or is your mind playing tricks on you and you're just thinking way too much?
Any past experience, examples?
It'd be interesting to hear...
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well...
i took badminton a year ago
a guy there asked me my name and kept talking to me
then invited me to play badminton with him and his roomates
and then invited me out to lunch, dinner, etc
invited me over to his house
constantly im`ed me.........
uh yes a retard can even figure out he likes me haha
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most of the time.. if i think a guy likes me or has interest in me, i'm right. but i do get confused at times when i keep asking myself does he like me or does he only have interest in me?? (since those are two different things...) (IMG:style_emoticons/default/sleep.gif) so yep. it all depends~
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when i like a guy, i overanalyze things and hope that he likes me, but i kno i'm wrong.
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when i like a guy, i overanalyze things and hope that he likes me, but i kno i'm wrong.
Yeah, me too. I over analyse every little painstaking detail in the hope that he likes me... but sadly, it's never true. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/sweatingbullets.gif)
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Uhm.. Yeah.. i dont know why=D but its always true=D
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when i like a guy, i overanalyze things and hope that he likes me, but i kno i'm wrong.
heh same cept for a girl.. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/sweatingbullets.gif)
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Sometimes it is. But then like everyone else, I overanalyze things and then kinda, convince myself that he doesn't like me afterwards.
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yeh.. usually when the guy likes me.. but i dont exactly like them back.. i can tell that they like me... ~
but if i have feelingz for the guy.. i think i get a lil dellusioned
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When their little actions show it, I'll think for a moment and get suspicious but then I'll brush it off ... because I could be overanalysing it and I dont want to jump to conclusions. But I'm usually right, which I always want to hit myself for not paying attention earlier on.
This is only when the guy likes me and I dont like him back. But when I like the guy, I tend to think his life revolves around me. So sad.
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im a such a lostie when it comes to things like this!
when i think a guy is interested in me..
i initially think hez interested,
then i reanalyse (or over analyse (IMG:style_emoticons/default/tongue.gif) ) the situation,
then make up my mind that he doesnt,
then after i find out he really does..
thats pretty much the series of events that goes on continuously!
lolz.. i never learn.. i just suck at being able to tell!
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yeh.. usually when the guy likes me.. but i dont exactly like them back.. i can tell that they like me... ~
but if i have feelingz for the guy.. i think i get a lil dellusioned
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yeah its usally true unless you're over thinking it
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no, not for me. i kept flirting with this one guy who i thought would like me from first glance, cuz i've always had luck with boys and i've always had them chasing after me, but apparently i was wrong. i kept thinking he liked me, so i kept trying to talk to him and hang out with him thinking that what he wanted. boy was i wrong. i found it, instead of him liking me, he was annoyed by me!!! i wrote a thread about it, actually. here it is if u're interested: index.php?showtopic=97947
so dont overanalyze like me and don't be so confident that the person likes you back for sure.
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unless a guy tells me straight out he likes me
or unless i know he's told someone else he's interested in me
i convince myself he doesn't want me so i don't get my hopes up
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well usually yeahhh but they make it really obvious so its like a no brainer (IMG:style_emoticons/default/ohmy.gif)
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when i expect it, it doesn't happen.i think it makes me do something to screw it up.
boys like me when i least expect it.
So don't expect it and it'llbe 100x sweeter; but if he doesn't it will hurt less.
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usually yes ;] haha, because its pretty obvious, but then sometimes i dunno
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well..
my ex.....
we both knew we really really really liked each other the first day we met each other..
it was at a friend's bbq party;;
and then we got each other's numbers in that day...
called each other up... and........yeah.. stuff happened;; yeah... uh huh~~~ =P
u just kinda KNOW...that they like u..by the vibe they give off=)
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yeah, because they make it so obvious (IMG:style_emoticons/default/sleep.gif)
