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okay so i really like this one guy that i work with. and i can't stop liking him. like i'll try but in the end i just end up liking him again. or if i date another guy i don't think much about the guy i'm dating i think more about the guy i like. but i could never go out with him cause he's 21 and in college and i'm 16 and a jr. in highschool and my parents won't allow it. heck they won't even let me hang out with him. my friend says to do it behind my parents back but idk if i should. i mean if i don't hang out with him behind my parents back i won't be able to hang out with him till i'm 18 and that's not till next decmeber. any ideas
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I would say move on. a guy isn't worth your parent's trust. =)
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there's nothing wrong with hanging out as friends.
i can understand why your parents won't allow it.
it's because older guys can take advantage of you.
because you're not as mature and...
well, you just don't contain that munipulative knowledge older guys do.
lol.
imo, as i've posted in the other bajillion threads about age...
love has no limitation -__-,
just make sure you aren't going to hurt yourself.
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^ I'd say follow your heart, it's hard to stop liking someone because your parents won't allow it, but then it's all up to you..
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I think you guys should be friends first because you don't know what kind of person he is outside of work. Or deep down you dont know him that well in order to just want to go out with him.
*think it over
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i know its hard...
i like this one guy and i was dating another guy...
so i had the same situation as u.. just my parents didnt mind..
but i say follow your heart...
or move on...
it will hurt to see him with someone else if you dont move on now..
been there down that...
but if you reallie do like then go for it! your parents should understand they probably went through it them selves...
but one question??..
does HE like you?
--sugene
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try being friends and hanging as friends
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okay me and him are friends and we have been for about 4 or 5 months now. but my parents won't let me hang out with him because of the age differnce wich is 4 years and i turn 17. but i really wanna hang out with him. my friend says to do it behind my parents back. so confused on what to do
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There's a 5 years difference there.
Usually I would say age is not a factor when choosing the perfect guy, but is this your parents we're talking about.
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it's my parents who have a problem with it
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go for it, at least then when you are together you both can see if you really were meant for each other.
